“Can I ask you something?” 16-year-old Djuhudi quietly asked
his HFLM counselor one afternoon. “Does my dad love me? I don't think he
does.”
These issues began the day Djuhudi was born. Tragically,
Djuhudi’s mom passed away in childbirth and his father blamed Djuhudi for her
death. Djuhudi’s father has never accepted him as a son or pursued a
relationship with him. While Djuhudi has made enormous strides over the past
five years at HFLM, self-worth is still a daily struggle.
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Djuhudi's Sponsors, the Lush family, are crazy about him! |
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Djuhudi wearing a new shirt he unwrapped from his sponsors. |
Then, one day, a package arrived with Djuhudi’s name written
in big letters across the front. It had travelled 9,000 miles across the
Atlantic Ocean from his sponsors in Colorado. Djuhudi unwrapped the package
slowly, pausing frequently to ask, “Is this really for me?” With each rip of
tape, a smile widened on his face, accompanied by a sparkle in his eyes that
wasn’t usually there. In that moment, we sensed his relief. Djuhudi had been
desperately trying to find love, and it ended up finding him, wrapped in a big
brown box. He fumbled in awe as he opened the package and found numerous handwritten
letters, photos, and gifts. He could not believe that someone had taken the
time to do this just for him.
While this act of kindness might seem small to you and I, it
was a loud affirmation of self-worth to Djuhudi. Our boys didn't grow up receiving
words of love spoken into their lives. They didn't often have loving arms
wrapped around them. They didn't have family figures bending over backwards to
put them through school. And while Djuhudi receives affirmation and love from
our staff on a daily basis, the message of self-worth was reinforced in a
unique way coming from a family on the other side of the world. And that love
has stuck with him to this day.
Your support, encouragement, and love matter deeply to the children at HFLM. It reaffirms their value,
provides hope, and gives second chances. A handwritten letter from you could be
just the hope they need to keep believing that they aren’t alone. To learn
about sponsoring a child and having the opportunity to develop a personal
relationship with him, please visit our
website.